I went to an art school. The visual arts department was my world — drawing, journalling, making things that could speak without me having to. Over the years, something else emerged. A part of me that loves to facilitate, that comes alive in front of a room. Making videos is where these two run into each other.
Oh no! They will see me!
I've been wanting to make videos for a while. But every time I get close, a younger version of me puts her foot down. Too scary. Too exposed. This week, with a little help from George Hanover and the women of Her Circle, I finally pressed record. This post is about what happened next - and about a Lighthouse Lab coming up for anyone else who's been wanting to show up more but can't quite get there.
Tending the Garden: A Community Developer's Approach to Marketing
We have been taught that the answer to slow growth is more - more platforms, more posts, more visibility. But what if that belief belongs to a system that no longer fits? I have been mapping human ecosystems for over a decade, and the question that changes everything is not how to reach more people. It is whether you actually know who your people are - and whether you are tending that relationship.
Are You Talking to the Right Elephant?
Tony had everything - solid science, a great product, real expertise. But every room he walked into, the doors quietly closed. I recognised the pattern immediately. He was flooding the Rider and the Elephant never woke up. This piece is about the model that changed everything for him - and the three questions that will change how you communicate too.




