self leadership

Design Thinking for Your Business, or… Oh No! Did I Break It?

Design Thinking for Your Business, or… Oh No! Did I Break It?

When I heard that our WhatsApp group was “too busy,” my first reaction was panic. Had I ruined something that mattered?

Instead of reacting, I used the Double Diamond design thinking process to pause, reflect, and redesign my communication. What I discovered changed the way I make decisions in my business — especially when feedback feels uncomfortable.

This is a story about clarity, courage, and refusing to make decisions from stress.

The Inner Compass

The Inner Compass

From a young age, I trusted an inner compass—a felt sense of integrity and direction. Following it gave my life meaning, but it also led me through loneliness, grief, and a painful reckoning with the belief that meaning guarantees safety.

This is a reflection on will, integrity, and what changes when we stop outsourcing our safety and learn to sail with the forces within us.

In the Busy Trap? Ask “I’m Doing This, So That What?”

In the Busy Trap? Ask “I’m Doing This, So That What?”

It’s tempting to think “getting things done” is all about systems — better to-do lists, more structure, more productivity hacks. But the real, hidden work is knowing who inside you is making the decisions.